视频:掌握说不的艺术 Share Facebook TwitterWeChatWeChatClose Weibo Print details 感到对日常生活的需求感到压力吗?如果您的事情太多,或者因忙碌的工作而感到厌倦,那么您可能说了太多的“是”。是时候开始说不,然后坚持下去了。发现方法和技巧,恢复更合理的时间表—没有内疚,没有苦难。 请参见副本 掌握说不的艺术当您面对压力时,您比您想象的更有力量。专注于重要的事情。在应允之前,请考虑这个请求如何适应您的优先级。权衡压力比。与领导一个筹款委员会花费数月时间相比,免费提供一些小饼干会快多了。消除内疚感。内疚永远不是说“是”的好理由。您最终可能会感到不满,压力更大。切入正题。简要说明您为什么拒绝。但是,没有必要详细说明或弥补借口。如果需要,重新开口。您可能需要拒绝几次,对方才会接受您的要求。本指导源自于Mayo Clinic执行健康计划专家。更多每日健康行动提示,请下载Mayo Clinic APP。 显示参考文献 Stress and your health fact sheet. U.S. Department of Health and Human Services. http://www.womenshealth.gov/publications/our-publications/fact-sheet/stress-your-health.html. Accessed March 11, 2016. How stress affects your health. American Psychological Association. http://www.apa.org/helpcenter/stress.aspx. Accessed March 12, 2016. Barbara Woodward Lips Patient Education Center. Stress management. Rochester, Minn.: Mayo Foundation for Medical Education and Research; 2004. Seaward BL. Essentials of Managing Stress. 4th ed. Burlington, Mass.: Jones & Bartlett Learning; 2017. Seaward BL. Managing Stress: Principles and Strategies for Health and Well-Being. 7th ed. Sudbury, Mass.: Jones & Bartlett Learning; 2012. Olpin M, et al. Time and life management. In: Stress Management for Life. 4th ed. Boston, Mass.: Cengage Learning; 2016. Shrand J, et al. Creating a stress-reduction plan. In: Manage Your Stress: Overcoming Stress in the Modern World. New York, N.Y.: St. Martin's Press; 2012. Noble M. Create and live your personalized stress management plan. In: Live Well: Personalized Stress Relief for Young Professionals. Raleigh, N.C.: Lulu Press Inc.; 2014. http://www.lulu.com/shop/melanie-noble/live-well-personalized-stress-relief-for-young-professionals/ebook/product-21540098.html. Accessed Sept. 28, 2017. Powell M. In the meantime. In: Stress Relief: The Ultimate Teen Guide. Lanham, Md.: Scarecrow Press Inc.; 2007. VID-20314206