Talking to kids about sex

By Mayo Clinic Staff

The thought of kids and sexuality scares many parents. But it's important for parents to talk to kids about sex. Kids and teens get a lot of information from friends and the media. They need help to make healthy choices about sex.

There's no one right way to talk to kids about sex. How mature the child is and your own goals and values can guide how and when you do it.

Look for everyday openings. Let children's questions set the pace. Start simple. As children mature, give them more details.

It's typical to feel awkward when talking to kids about sex. But talking openly to them increases the odds that your child will know what your values are and make good choices about sex.

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Oct. 19, 2023

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