Recognize intimate partner violence
Violence can affect anyone in an intimate relationship. And research has shown that lesbians and other women who have sex with women experience intimate partner violence at a higher rate than do other people. But they might be less likely to report this kind of violence due to:
- Threats from an abuser to tell others about an individual's sexual orientation or sexual behaviors.
- Fear of discrimination from health care providers or law enforcement.
In addition to the physical risks, staying in an abusive relationship can lead to depression, anxiety and feelings of hopelessness. If you don't want to tell others about your sexual orientation or same-sex relationship, it may be hard to ask for help. But the only way to break the cycle of violence is to take action.
If you're the target of intimate partner violence, tell someone about the abuse, whether it's a friend, a loved one, a health care provider or another close contact. Or consider contacting a domestic violence hotline for help.